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Some people can maintain a mind over matter mindset. Some are stronger than others across the board. Children from the same abusive home come out of it different. None forget, but some can move on, some maintain denial and others crumble. I am glad that you are still leading and fighting the war at hand. We need experienced soldiers who can help us. Also so glad you're doing this podcast with the exceptional young men.

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'And God's magic still happens. Perfect ending to this memorable podcast with the Centurions. The young men already quite skilled. Important questions asked. A highlight of their lives is going to the bookstore and watching you identify old treasures there. Your talking about the importance of your grandparents helps me realize even more the part I play in my grandsons' lives growing up in a trashed world. The conversation on Dog Kings....esp. Trump serving at MacDonalds and Bibi....helpful perspective in connecting dots. The best part for me is your emphasis on 'telling' oneself to BE courageous....not asking. And no labeling of PTSD. You never said PTSD does not exist. You are describing what one can do to help avoid or mitigate it. Your story. It reminds me of my sister, Patty, who was labeled bipolar early in her tortured life by the truly evil psychiatrists who knew nothing about her. I told her to stop referring to herself as 'bipolar.' That along with other support, she blossomed and began seeing herself differently. I told her she was the most brilliant counselor I ever had, intelligence off the charts...and the best company...and funny. When she died, she saw herself as a whole beautiful woman. She had slowly rebuilt her crushed soul. Thank you for this WONDERFUL podcast. I do practice being more Thai every day before I get up....letting go of yesterday. THANK YOU.

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